Before You Say 'I Do': How Premarital Counseling Builds a Lasting Marriage
By Marcus Price, MDiv, MSW, LCSW
Marriage is one of life’s most significant commitments, and preparing for it requires more than just planning a wedding. While love and excitement bring couples together, the reality is that long-term success in marriage requires intentional effort, open communication, and a solid foundation.
Why Premarital Counseling Matters
Premarital counseling provides couples with the tools they need to build a healthy and lasting relationship. It helps partners explore crucial topics such as communication and conflict styles, conflict resolution, finances, intimacy, and family expectations before saying "I do." Research has shown that couples who engage in premarital counseling experience higher marital satisfaction and a lower risk of divorce. In fact, it’s estimated that couples who engage in professional premarital counseling are 31% less likely to divorce.
Key benefits of premarital counseling include:
Improved Communication: Learn how to express needs and concerns in a healthy and productive manner.
Conflict Resolution Skills: Gain strategies to navigate disagreements effectively without damaging the relationship.
Financial Planning: Discuss spending habits, budgeting, and financial goals to align expectations.
Understanding Roles & Expectations: Explore family dynamics, cultural influences, and personal beliefs about marriage.
Emotional & Physical Intimacy: Strengthen emotional bonds and set expectations for a fulfilling partnership.
Introducing the SYMBIS Assessment
At Seed & Oak Counseling, we are proud to offer the SYMBIS (Saving Your Marriage Before It Starts) Assessment, a research-based tool designed to provide couples with personalized insights into their relationship. This comprehensive assessment helps couples:
Identify strengths and areas for growth
Understand each partner’s unique personality and relationship dynamics
Develop practical strategies for a thriving marriage
The SYMBIS Assessment is a powerful resource for couples seeking to lay a solid foundation for their future together. By working with a trained SYMBIS facilitator, you and your partner will receive tailored guidance to ensure you are equipped for a healthy and fulfilling marriage.
Invest in Your Relationship Today
Premarital counseling is an investment in your future happiness. Whether you’re engaged or considering marriage, taking the time to strengthen your relationship now can lead to a more resilient and fulfilling partnership.
If you’re ready to take this important step, contact Seed & Oak Counseling today to schedule your premarital counseling session and take the SYMBIS Assessment. Let’s build a strong foundation for your lifelong journey together!
